It’s been a long time since I actually wrote more than two
words of my own volition. Things have
been weird, crazy, hard, and painful.
You know the drill. The usual
shit, just a different day.
Let’s see. After my
break down a few years ago I left the job from hell found a no brainer job. I somehow managed to get my feet back under
me. No responsibilities. No real major thinking along with any real
pay. Oh well. It’s better than being down trodden and talked
about and passively aggressively treated like a piece of shit. Last I heard they had a hard time keeping
someone there as long as I hung in there.
LOL go figure I am glutton for pain.
I then started to get pain in my abdomen and my not so great
Dr. told me it was minor gall stones since I didn’t cry when I got my ultra
sound. (Arsehole). About
6 months later guess what. Bam here I am
at home in such intense pain that I felt like I wanted to die. I refused to go to the hospital or my Dr because
I was positive it would be the same shit different day. I am overweight again. So it was my weight the same old medical fall
back answer. Finally after like five
days of rolling around and crying in bed my husband finally took me to the Dr
who looked at me and sent me to Urgent care where I was made to wait 6 hours to
wish I just stayed home rolling around in bed crying. Finally I was told I needed emergency surgery. I later found out that the surgeon had to do
an extra-large incision because my gall bladder was so impacted that it was
insanely huge. Now. I know that didn’t magically happen in 6
months.
Sigh. You would think
that was enough. Nope. That Week I went to get my surgery was also
Valentines and the day my husband was laid off at work. I really refuse to say anything nice about
where he worked. I refuse to say
anything at all. I am just that
mad. It’s been over a year of constant
interviews and still no jobs. It’s disheartening. I like to think that this happened for a
reason. That really awesome job he
always wanted will come along. I just
hope it comes along soon. This is
getting scary.
Then I fired my nincompoop Dr. I found a new Dr. who I think is
amazing. Then I also found a Neurologist
because the intense migraines I have always had seem to have gotten worse. Uggggg.
I hate not having much of a life.
They seem to be more on then off.
I can’t seem to get away from them at all. The other day I actually scared myself
silly. I got a weird intense migraine and
then I got a bloody nose. I tend to be a
bit of a hypochondriac so I had to talk myself down. I figure if it happened again I can always
call my dr. But I don’t want to go crazy
and be like aaaahhhhhhhhh CANCER.. BRAIN TUMOR! Cuz Yeah I can totally go
there. And I obviously already
did..lol. I have been on some new meds
and maybe it’s a part of that. Maybe it’s
the weather. Maybe it’s just a quwinkydink.
I am trying to lose those gabillion pounds I packed on after
I lost my mind. I say that lovingly…lol. I know I lost it. I own it.
I have started to clean out the shit in my life that made me lose
it. All that baby stuff I gave
away. It wasn’t bad. What hurt the most believe it or not was
giving away my Poo Bear. I held on to
that thing for about 10 years. I put all
my hopes and dreams into that little fluff of cotton and felt. I know he went to a good home and I know his
future owner will love him dearly. I
have purged.
I feel it’s important I try.
I mean really try to keep up with this writing. It’s hard because the damn migraines that
rule my world. I don’t even game
anymore. I feel like I want to rip my
eyes out. But for now I will keep trying
to avoid the scale and lose slowly keeping as active as I can.
Bye for now